If you're not able to provide a recent reference from at least one established independent provider in your introduction, then I may ask you for proof of hotel booking, or identity.

I travel frequently and I do not have a permanent incall - if you'd like me to update you personally when I know the dates that I'm visiting your city, then feel free to send me an email with your details.

For me, attraction has never been skin deep. Where you were born, your age, your body, your gender, or your sexuality matter far less to me than genuine connection (and whether we like the same cheeses).